A few months ago, I spent several evenings sorting pictures for Alyssa’s graduation. It was a lot of fun, but as I looked at all those pictures from Alyssa’s life, I realized something awesome.
The ‘crazy years’ I mentioned on Monday weren’t just crazy from a medical or ‘special’ perspective. They were also crazy because in the midst of everything, Alyssa has led a very ‘normal’ life.
Her special needs have not slowed her down or kept her from enjoying life. In fact, quite the opposite is true. Whether at home or on a trip, visiting family or hanging out with friends, there is almost NEVER a picture of Alyssa just sitting or doing nothing. Instead, she is always busy, both with everyday ‘normal’ tasks and with fun, crazy adventures with her sibs. I think it’s a beautiful thing that she was a part of everything her siblings did… and sometimes even did things we didn’t. (For example, there was that one time when all of us refused to go on the zip line a couple hundred feet in the air–except for Alyssa!)
I know it may not always be possible, depending on the disability, but including your special sibling whenever possible is desperately important. Their life is anything but normal… what better gift could you give them than inviting them to join you in your normal life?
Here are a few of the normal (and not so normal!) things Alyssa has done… at least, the ones we caught on camera!
Cooking a meal
Climbing a mountain
Hiking in the Grand Canyon
Flying in a helicopter
Singing in the school choir
Riding amusement park rides
Walking the dog
Making gifts or cards for people
Riding a zip line
As you might guess, Alyssa is a busy, energetic, talented young lady. And nothing, not even a ‘disability,’ can stand in the way of her living life to the fullest.